Thursday, September 16, 2010

Open Your Heart To Love - A Powerful Dating Tip For Ladies

This is a simple and highly effective visualization technique that can assist you open your coronary heart to love and men. Sit in a snug position and shut your eyes. Turn out to be aware of your respiratory, slowly inhaling and exhaling to the depend of seven, for at the very least three to five cycles. Imagine a ravishing pink rose or other multi-petal flower in bud kind that resides in the heart of your heart. The petals are fresh and tightly certain, protecting the fragile center. Notice the inherent beauty of this bud and all the fabulous potential it contains.

Subsequent, give yourself permission to slowly and gently open that bud and your heart. In your thoughts, say these words, “I open my coronary heart to love. Could divine love stream by me, from me, and to me.” Bathe yourself in this movement of affection and really feel it wash over you. Then, slowly, visualize the petals of your bud unfolding. Think about them gracefully and tenderly unwinding, and loosening up bit by bit. The more the flower opens, the more your coronary heart opens, and the extra you are feeling the energy of love flowing all around.

Proceed visualizing till the bud transforms into a fully blossomed flower, petals spread huge facing the sun. See it and yourself with all your amazing interior beauty. Lastly, categorical gratitude for this profound experience of affection and your newly discovered openness. Once you feel complete, open your eyes returning to full consciousness to get pleasure from a love-stuffed day!

This exercise can take as little as one minute or as long as 30 minutes. Choose the timing that feels proper to you. In case you notice any hesitancy in opening the blossom absolutely, be happy to cease where you are snug after which visualize a little extra progress the next time you try the technique.

Observe this visualization in case you have any concerns or negativity about men or love. If you wish to find that genuine heart-connection with the best man, you may want an open heart. The extra you’re employed with the train, the extra you will move via your day in an open manner. Males will see you as protected to method and be more keen to start out a conversation. Open your heart and watch what a difference it makes in your love life.

Three Sided Love

A standard theme for a lot of romance novels is that they use characters being torn between two individuals at the similar time. A great instance to describe a love triangle would be the relationships between King Arthur, Queen Guinevere, and first knight Sir Lancelot. Both males love Guinevere; her confused coronary heart loves both males back. In real life, we definitely don’t sit up for situations resembling this; it never makes for a happy or wholesome home. Nevertheless, in books readers crave excitement and unexpected twists. The love triangle is a device that provides pressure, causes drama, and provides spice to whatever different plots is perhaps present.

Let’s talk about some explanation why authors use ‘love triangles’ in a romance story.

Why have the characters compete towards each other for love?

Good romance stories usually use conflicts and overcoming obstacles to maintain their readers in suspense. Inserting a love triangle is an easy solution to complicate the relationship without sacrificing the romance. The indecision of the character in question might have your readers connect with the story and the occasions taking place. It’s much more than only a story when readers find themselves emotionally invested in the character’s selections and what’s going to happen to them because of those choices.

Why does someone develop into extra attractive once they’re unavailable?

For some purpose there are individuals who find others more fascinating or engaging when someone else is already taken. It could possibly be that the ‘chase’ is what they find most desirable. Folks want what they cannot have. They generally do not discover what has been underneath their eyes your entire time until another person factors it out. It is like when stock goes up, suddenly everyone needs a share. Since this typically occurs in reality, it appears natural when it occurs in story, making it easy for the readers to narrate to each side of the coin.

How do you resolve a ‘love triangle’?

If characters are concerned in a love triangle, clearly somebody’s feelings need to change. Your readers are going to desire a decision to the issues occurring. If the story stays the identical and you end the story with the character nonetheless unsure of who to decide on, then there is not any actual progression. You may’t build the readers expectations up and then by no means fulfill them with a proper conclusion. They won’t be happy with the outcome. As your story progresses, the readers could change their opinions about who they need the character to be with romantically. If you’re the writer and are unsure about how to resolve the triangle, then you could want to let the characters’ interactions lead you to the shock ending! We might not welcome indecision with regards to love in real life, nevertheless it’s straightforward to appreciate why we welcome them in stories.

Monday, September 13, 2010

REISS introduces 'Elements' with Jamie Morgan


For the launch of the Autumn Winter Collection REISS has collaborated with renowned photographer and filmmaker, Jamie Morgan, to create an artistic short film that highlights the feel and aesthetic of the upcoming collection.

"This season is a step forward for Reiss with a collection we are really excited about. Showing our key products in this new and innovative way felt right for where we are going, as a way of capturing all the energy and excitement that is apparent throughout every aspect of our brand. And generally, if we're this excited about it, I'm confident that our customers will be too." - David Reiss

David Reiss understands what his brand DNA is about as he has been successfully making innovative decisions at the helm of the company for nearly 40 years. He recognized that choosing to shoot the campaign on video was a bold move and was confident that it was the right time for the brand to take this step.

The creative inspiration came as the result of an artistic collaboration with Jamie Morgan, renowned photographer and film maker who founded London's creative collective 'Buffalo' in the 1980's.

The 'Buffalo' collective changed the nature of image making through its pioneering work in The Face. His sense of exploration and creative instincts then brought him to explore moving images which translated into a series of short but beautifully emotive films as well as portrait and documentary studies.

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Dating Advice


When it comes to conversation, sometimes less is more. People who speed-talk, interrogate, brag, blab the family secrets or don't allow you to have one single moment's peace of mind are control freaks. It's like they think that if they are not talking, that they don't somehow exist. It also makes you wonder if you are allowed to have a thought that is NOT about them.
Also, never get too sarcastic. One sure turn-off, for most dates, is the over-use of unsolicited sarcasm. A sarcastic type will tell you that sarcasm is actually a device that is used to charm or woo the opposite sex. That it is a form of humor or discourse that many find witty and entertaining. That it is a way to demonstrate superior intelligence, or your prodigious powers of clarity, precision and personal observation.

Sarcasm is an obvious defense mechanism that is used to mask or disguise something deeply twisted in the personality. Instead of being sarcastic, why don't you just wear a T-shirt that says "Needy, approval seeking and insecure." Most sarcasm sounds like criticism, and criticism (especially if it isn't asked for) is recognized nowadays as verbal abuse.

Never ever lie about your past. Let's face it. Not everyone comes with a clean resume when it comes to relationships. Almost everybody has big mistakes, embarrassments and down right tragedies in his or her past. The question is, how much do you tell your new partner and how much do you lie about it?

There are two schools of thought about this. I tend to lean on the side that says it is a big mistake to talk about your exes to the new amour. For one thing, it can arouse unnecessary jealousy. Take it from someone who has gone out with someone whose previous girlfriend was a supermodel. Believe me, you lie there wondering all night how you could possible compete with the past...

I believe that the less your partner knows about your sordid past the better, yet it is still a bad idea to lie to them if a certain subject that relates to your past comes up. The only possible exception to this rule is the "How many people have you slept with" question. If the number is over seventy and you are only twenty-five and female, it might be a good idea to subtract a few paramours.

"Never ever say I love you (unless you mean it)"

It is a cliche, but apparently playing "hard to get" actually works. It seems that the primal baby that is within all of us just can't stand being left out and ignored and will actually start seeking approval from those who seem to be withholding their affections. Both sexes are apparently turned off by displays of neediness and emotional security, so whatever you do don't reveal how lonely you are, don't reveal anything about your intentions and never ever beg for sex. And if you want to kill the potential relationship, completely, just utter these words "I love you" too soon into the relationship. As most women will tell you, it makes men run screaming for the hills.

Although most of us often feel compelled to be honest, it is not always the best approach when it comes to being a strategist in love. As twentieth-century wit Dorothy Parker said, "Spilling your guts is as ugly as it sounds...."

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Customs And Traditions In Relation To The Wedding Rings


Throughout the ages the wedding day has been the most special day for most of the people. On this vary day it is believed that the souls of two individuals becomes one. And as the symbol of this union the custom of exchange of rings between the bride and the groom is followed. The custom of exchange of rings both for marriage and betrothal seems to be quite old a tradition. This tradition has come through ages and is still in its height of popularity.

In the customs of most of the countries the wedding ring is worn on the left hand ring finger. It is believed that there is a vein that generates from this finger and goes straight to the heart. Thus the belief is that there is a direct connection of the heart to that finger. Though in actual reality there is no such vein in that finger according to the medical study. Therefore there is no binding that one should wear the wedding ring on that finger only. As in many countries the tradition already exists of wearing the wedding ring on the ring finger of the right had. Thus the finger on which you wear the wedding ring does not matter so much.

According to the tradition of Britain it is the duty of the best man to keep track of the wedding rings of the bride and the groom and they are the one who present the ring at the symbolic moment of the exchange of the wedding rings. Sometimes in case of elaborate weddings it is the custom that a young boy from the family of the bride or groom may assist the bride or the groom as the ring bearer. Thus it is seen that the tradition in relation to the exchange of the wedding rings differs in different cultures and customs. But the fact is that the custom of exchange of rings remains almost the same in almost every customs.

In case of the style and the material of the wedding rings there are also the differences n different traditions. However, in the most common cases it is the gold that is the most preferred material for the wedding rings. It is often seen that women generally wear narrow bands while men have broader bands.

As for the style of the wedding rings in France and French speaking countries there is common patter of the ring of three interwoven rings are considered as the wedding ring. These three rings stands for the Christian virtues of faith, hope and love. As in Greek a kind of puzzle rings are offered to the bride as a test of the women. This is kind of set of interlocking metal bands which the women have to arrange in such an order so that they form a single ring. In some parts of Europe and North America a custom is followed by the women of wearing two rings on the same finger one of which is the engagement ring and the other the wedding band.